[He rolls his eyes.] And just how many people have you actually dated in your life? [But okay, this is fair and he seems to think about that.]

...if the situation was reversed and somebody else was doing this, what would they have to do to convince you they were dating? [A pause.] You know the other thing is that we have to be careful this doesn't bite is later for being too biased toward each other. It's a balancing act.